A bit on the side

In response to:Blimey! Another year...!

Sat, 07 Feb 2009 16:50:11 +0100

There's sporadic and then there's sporadic...

In response to:Blimey! Another year...!

Fri, 06 Feb 2009 00:01:00 +0100

If you're 'the mistress" then you can't really expect to have anything other than sporadic sex can you?

In response to:Hoist by my own petard

Tue, 04 Sep 2007 18:08:11 +0200

Hi Trevor,
Thanks for comment - Much appreciated. This blog is opportunity to let off steam, but being public must mean I'm open to others' opinions, so thanks for making the effort.
To be honest, I think his wife is more liability than support. At practical level he's 'looked after', but she needs his attention in way that is probably more nuisance than comfort. When apart I think I actually have better time, but it is possible I am deluded.

What is frustrating is not getting enough time, and stuff does keep happening...

I think he's worth some level of perseverance, but for my own self-esteem and sanity I have to be careful that I have some idea about how much I am prepared to put up with.

Thanks for response.

Jemimah

In response to:Hoist by my own petard

Tue, 04 Sep 2007 16:33:00 +0200

Hi jemimah, what do I know? not a lot, but, and you may hate me for this, Is he having his cake and eating it? if you know what I mean.

You are in pain at the time you spend apart, Is he? Is he really? You are mostly alone, he is always with someone. It is not fair on you.

You must make the decision, or, force the decision, on how you are going to live the rest of your life, be honest with yourself, you can not go on with this arrangement.

Of course jem, you have every right to ignore what I am writing, I am not a trained counsellor or anything like that, as I said at the start, What do I know?.

Good luck.

In response to:Here goes, then.

Mon, 02 Jul 2007 23:09:45 +0200

Thanks, Joe.

In response to:Here goes, then.

Mon, 02 Jul 2007 21:35:33 +0200

interesting blog, jemimah, I agree with you that blogs are ideal for writing down your thoughts, your lifestyle will not be judged by me, I have my own sins that I don't have the guts to write down.

Welcome to this blog place, there are some nice people around as I am sure you will find out.

I will watch out for your next post.